Is 21st birthday a really big deal?  Is it a must that a big party must be held for it?  Why cant it just be a family celebration?

         I dont understand. It might be important to some, but not to all. But, the most important is, to the person who's going to celebrate it !! And not his family or friends who wants this and that. Ridiculous !!

         Come on.. it's just a birthday..  it's only a birthday!!! Geez..  It's cool if u have hundreds  of friends to invite.. what if u only have tiny little numbers.. whats the point of it..  D it..